Growing in faith, by his grace, one day at a time



Sunday, July 7, 2013

Weeding the Garden of Your Heart


1 Corinthians 3:6-8 (NKJV) I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the increase. So then neither he who plants is anything, nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase. Now he who plants and he who waters are one, and each one will receive his own reward according to his own labor.


As evening approached a cool breeze kicked up providing relief from the sweltering relentless humidity and heat of the day.  Irene decided to take advantage of the brief respite and venture out for a walk through her neighborhood before retiring for the night in her usual place alone in front of the television.

Across the street the Miller children were running around the yard giggling and screeching as their father sprayed them with the garden hose. That must feel good she thought with a smile thinking back to her own childhood spending her summers with her grandparents at their lake house.  
As she walked past the Perry’s she could see a group of people gathered on the back patio talking and laughing while Pete Perry tended to the barbecue. Irene inhaled deeply to take in the aroma of something wonderful cooking on the grill. She stopped and closed her eyes so that her senses could soak in the summer evening. When she opened her eyes she saw Pete waving his cooking tongs in the air at her. Startled she waved back, put her head down and continued her walk. 

Two houses further down her street the world was much quieter. To her right was a small very old brick house with a rickety white fence in need of  painting. In the yard on the North side of the house she saw her dear friend Macy with a wide-rimmed yellow garden hat and green garden gloves kneeling on the ground delicately pulling weeds from between the vegetables in her garden.   

“What do you think you are doing Macy?” she called out from the street.

Macy looked up surprised yet delighted to hear Irene’s voice. “What does it look like I am doing?” she retorted and then “Where have you been?” 

Macy stood up and walked up to the fence unlatching the gate to invite Irene to come in. “It is good to see you Irene. It has been a long time. Would you like some iced tea?” 

Irene nodded and smiled.

They sat on dusty plastic green lawn chairs near Macy’s garden sipping the cool lemony iced tea and Macy whispered, “Irene, I haven’t seen you since Burt’s funeral.  How are you doing?”  

Irene gulped back her tears still raw with emotion and said that she just simply could not leave the house or talk to anyone the last two months. Today for some reason, she felt like venturing out. “I am sorry that I didn’t return your calls.” she said sadly. “You have always been a good friend to me.” 

Macy patted Irene’s hand and smile and said, “You needed your space and time to grieve. I am glad that you came out today.  I have missed you.  How do you like my garden?”  

“It is beautiful, but isn’t it a lot of work?  Especially all that weeding?” Irene remarked with a grimace.

Macy smiled, looking down at her calloused hands. “Yes, it is a lot of work getting the soil ready, planting the seeds, watering and the most important part is the weeding.  If I don’t weed the garden every day while the weeds are small they will take over and destroy my beautiful plants and the vegetables that I look forward to harvesting. The weeding is necessary and always worthwhile!"    

They sat quietly for a few minutes looking at the garden, enjoying the peaceful evening and each other’s company.  

“My garden reminds me of the garden in our hearts, the one that God keeps there. He plants the seeds of faith, hope and love and nourishes us with his word so that we can grow in our faith and strengthen our relationship with him. It is up to us to keep the garden weeded and if we are not diligent we may allow the weeds of anger, anxiety, bitterness, grudges, greed and selfishness to take over and choke out all of His beautiful work. "

Irene had tears streaming down her cheeks. “I have been foolish to lock myself away from God and from you for so long. I was so angry and filled with resentment and pain that I closed my heart to everyone and let the weeds grow.  Please forgive me.” 

Macy reached out to hug Irene. “You are my dear friend and I love you. I am so proud of you for coming out today. These past few months must have been so difficult for you. You have been in my prayers every day. Please know that you are not alone. We all struggle with the chore of weeding the garden of our hearts, but with God’s love and our diligence the blessed harvest will come.” 

As darkness fell Macy walked Irene home in the comfortable silence of friendship and a faith that lasts forever.  The Gardener smiled.  

Isaiah 51:3 (KJ) For the Lord shall comfort Zion; He will comfort all her waste places, and He will make her wilderness like Eden and her desert like the garden of the Lord. Joy and gladness shall be found therein, thanksgiving and the voice of melody.


"Gardening is a way of showing that you believe in tomorrow.”  Unknown

"Kiss of the sun for pardon. Song of the birds for mirth. You're closer to God's heart in a garden than any place else on earth." -- Dorothy Frances Gurney

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Choose Life

Deuteronomy 30:19-20 (NKJV) 19 I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; 20 that you may love the Lord your God, that you may obey His voice, and that you may cling to Him, for He is your life and the length of your days; and that you may dwell in the land which the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them.”

God has given us the gift of life for a reason. Every experience we have, every person we interact and connect with is by his design according to his plan.  Every life has a purpose and we should have a great sense of fulfillment and satisfaction each day when we retire.
Ah, if only it were that easy. So, it may not be easy, but anything worthwhile in life never seems to come to us easily.

What does it mean to choose life?

Choosing life is not merely a physical presence by which we walk through each day in our physical being like a well tuned robot.  It is not walking around empty, self-absorbed, critical or depressed, although that is one choice.  God has something better in mind for all of us.

Choosing life is a belief and attitude so ingrained in our souls that becomes second nature.  Choosing life is having an unshakable faith, trust and love for God that permeates deep within the mind, spirit and body.

Choosing life means putting on the full armor of God and clinging to him fully, because when we choose life, Satan moves in for the attack. Satan will try to steal your joy and fill you with doubt, greed, anger, sadness and worry.

Choosing life means being resilient, grateful, loving and happy through all experiences in life.  It is a way of being that transcends all circumstances.

God has given us the freedom of choice, which no human being can take from us. Rejoice in the dawn of each new day and retire each night with peaceful satisfaction with your blessed God given-life.

You were created by him as special and unique for His purpose. Choose to reach out your hand and feel the power and grace of his love as you walk with Him in the light.

Choose God, choose life and you will be happy!

John 8:12 (NKJV) 12 Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.” 




  






Sunday, June 9, 2013

He Shall Direct Your Paths

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NKJV)  5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; 6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.
I am overwhelmed by the countless number of times throughout my life that this scripture has been boldly and unabashed illustrated for me. Not only has this scripture rung true in my life, but I have witnessed it in the lives of friends, colleagues and family members. 

Trusting in the Lord with all your heart, in ALL circumstances is no easy task for most of us. It is easy to say that we believe and live by this scripture during the good times, when all is going according to our desires and plans. This scripture is difficult when we are faced with life-changing challenges such as the loss of a job, a loved one, financial difficulties, relationship issues and major health concerns. It is difficult when we are filled with anxiety, worry, low self-esteem, confusion and/or uncertainty about the future. 

Our faith is most challenged during these times, but it serves as a great opportunity to grow in our faith and develop a closer relationship to God. I believe that Gods uses these situations as teaching moments that may take months or years to complete. It is a process that requires prayer, obedience, resilience, perseverance and patience. A tall order I know, but well worth it. 

I like to control things in my life, but I have learned that when I trust God and turn over all my concerns to him that he eventually provides me with a clear and straight path for which to follow. Sometimes it is not the path I had in mind, or it takes longer than I wanted, but it has always turned out to be the best for me in the long run. He clears the way and makes things happen!

Trusting God is: 
  • Acknowledging that all things are possible through Him
  • Knowing that He loves us all unconditionally and will never leave us
  • Knowing that He has a plan and purpose for each of us
  • Knowing that He is in control and the grand decision maker for all things in our lives
  • Being humble and giving up our prideful ways to Him
  • Serving Him without question, doubt or worry
  • Knowing that when we fall He will be there to catch us and lift us up
  • Living each day as if it were our last with a joyful and giving heart

Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)  11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Romans 8:28 (NKJV) 28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

I have managed to get several of my favorite bible versus in the blog today.  Truly, these have all been significant guiding beliefs in my life and have served many times as a flashlight in the darkness, a lighthouse in the distance and a shining star to give me hope.  

Have a blessed week!